The Fourth of July is more than just fireworks and food — it’s about connection, freedom, and fun. And what better way to celebrate than with a game that brings people together instantly? That’s where “This or That” questions come in.
Whether you’re hosting a summer bash, planning Instagram content, or looking for a fun activity for kids and family, this game is the ultimate icebreaker. In this guide, we’ve compiled 100+ of the best 4th of July This or That questions, covering everything from patriotic preferences to summer snacks and silly party moments.
You can use them:
- As part of your party games
- In Instagram stories or Reels
- In a classroom or camp
- With your partner or family around the fire pit
Let’s get into the categories so you can find the perfect questions for your celebration.
What Are “This or That” Questions? (And Why They’re Perfect for July 4th)
“This or That” is a fun game format where two options are given, and the participant chooses their favorite. It’s easy to play, requires no setup, and works with any group — whether it’s adults, couples, kids, or social media followers.
Why it works for 4th of July:
- Promotes conversation
- Easy for guests of all ages
- Great for in-person or online sharing
- Adds a fun twist to traditional celebrations
This simple game brings out personalities, preferences, and even a few laughs. Now let’s dive into the questions.
Patriotic This or That Questions
Start strong with questions inspired by American pride, tradition, and symbols.
- Fireworks or Parade?
- Red or Blue?
- National Anthem or America the Beautiful?
- Bald Eagle or Statue of Liberty?
- Flag cake or Star-shaped cookies?
- Face paint or Patriotic sunglasses?
- USA shirt or American flag socks?
- Patriotic playlist or Country classics?
- Star decor or Striped tablecloth?
- Liberty Bell or Mount Rushmore?
These are great for Instagram polls and party conversations.
Food & BBQ This or That Questions (The Great Cookout Debate)
The Fourth of July is also known for its classic American eats. Let your guests decide which dish rules the picnic table.
- Hot dogs or Burgers?
- Grilled corn or Potato salad?
- Lemonade or Iced tea?
- Apple pie or Watermelon?
- BBQ ribs or Fried chicken?
- Mac and cheese or baked beans?
- S’mores or Ice cream sundaes?
- Popsicles or Freeze Pops?
- Fruit salad or Pasta salad?
- Root beer or Cola?
Use these during mealtime chatter or as part of a food-themed quiz.
Summer Fun This or That Questions (Make the Most of the Season)
What’s your favorite way to enjoy the summer sun?
- Beach or Lake?
- Pool party or Backyard BBQ?
- Flip-flops or Sneakers?
- Picnic or Bonfire?
- Sparklers or Glow sticks?
- Water fight or Fireworks show?
- Hammock nap or Lawn games?
- Ice cream truck or Snow cone stand?
- Road trip or Staycation?
- Campfire stories or an Outdoor movie?
These work well at outdoor events, family reunions, or summer camps.
Couples’ This or That Questions (For Romantic Red, White & Blue Vibes)
Make your date night more playful or use these for couples’ content online.
- Fireworks kiss or Sunset selfie?
- Matching T-shirts or matching sunglasses?
- Romantic dinner or Picnic lunch?
- Cuddle by the bonfire or Dance at the party?
- Cook together or order in?
- Hold hands during fireworks or Hug under the stars?
- Starry night walk or Patriotic movie marathon?
- Share dessert or Share drinks?
- Couple photo or Couple challenge?
- Stay up late or wake up early?
Perfect for TikTok trends, story Q&As, or date night games.
Kids & Family This or That Questions (Fun for All Ages)
Keep the younger crowd and families entertained with easy and creative choices.
- Temporary tattoos or Face paint?
- Bubbles or Balloons?
- Red clothes or Blue clothes?
- Tug-of-war or Sack race?
- Sprinklers or Water balloons?
- Coloring pages or Flag crafts?
- Cookies or Cupcakes?
- Flag waving or Star dancing?
- Story time or Game time?
- Movie night or Campfire songs?
Add these to your activity table or printables for kids.
Party Edition: Make It Loud, Proud & Memorable
Need conversation starters for your July 4th bash? These are great for group dynamics.
- DIY decorations or Store-bought setup?
- Early BBQ or Late-night fireworks?
- Paper plates or Real dishes?
- Games or Music?
- Outdoor setup or Indoor comfort?
- Themed outfits or Casual wear?
- Potluck dinner or one host cooks all?
- Sparkler countdown or Surprise fireworks?
- Fire pit or Grill?
- Silent viewing or Fireworks playlist?
More Patriotic & USA-Themed This or That Questions
- Stars or Stripes?
- Red-white combo or Blue-white combo?
- American flag shirt or Hat with flag print?
- Salute or Hand on heart during the anthem?
- Watch fireworks live or on TV?
- Decorate the house or decorate yard?
- Classic American movies or Patriotic documentaries?
- Firework show at the park or Backyard fireworks?
- Write a thank-you letter to a veteran or visit a memorial?
- Star-spangled theme or Vintage Americana style?
More Foodie Questions – For the Grill Masters and Sweet Tooths
- Classic ketchup or Spicy BBQ sauce?
- Chips and salsa or Chips and dip?
- Grilled veggies or Grilled meat?
- Ice cream float or Milkshake?
- Cupcake tower or Cookie tray?
- Homemade pie or Store-bought cake?
- Classic coleslaw or Tangy vinegar slaw?
- Corn on the cob or Corn salad?
- S’mores with dark chocolate or Milk chocolate?
- Cold pasta salad or Warm baked mac?
More Summer Lifestyle Questions
- Morning picnic or Evening cookout?
- Frisbee or Volleyball?
- Sunglasses or Baseball cap?
- Paddle boat or Canoe ride?
- Sunscreen or Sun hat?
- Lawn chairs or a Picnic blanket?
- Camp out or Hotel stay?
- Watch the sunset or watch the sunrise?
- Slip-n-slide or Kiddie pool?
- Outdoor movie or Game night inside?
More Couples or Friends Questions
- Take a selfie or record a video?
- Share snacks or Share drinks?
- Plan a road trip or plan a house party?
- Sit under fireworks or Dance by the grill?
- Photo booth or Polaroid camera?
- Matching hats or matching bandanas?
- Make dessert together or Grill together?
- Sing along to patriotic songs or just vibe quietly?
- Chill in a hammock or go for a walk?
- Red lipstick look or Natural glow-up?
Extra Fun Party Picks
- Host the party or be a guest?
- Play games or watch shows?
- Decorate in advance or Last-minute style?
- Watch the big firework finale or leave early to beat traffic?
- Outdoor dance floor or Chill bonfire setup?
- Lawn games or Drinking games?
- Group photos or Candid captures?
- Picnic in the park or Pool party at home?
- Red solo cup or Glass tumbler?
- Big crowd or Intimate group?
Bonus Kids & Family Rounds
- Parade costume or Patriotic pajamas?
- Popsicle stick crafts or Paper plate flags?
- Water gun fight or Sponge toss?
- Star stamps or Face stickers?
- Sand art or Sidewalk chalk?
- American flag puzzle or Word search?
- Coloring contest or drawing free-style?
- Red punch or Blue slushie?
- Dress up a pet or up doll?
- Camp out in the yard or Fort indoors?
Use these in your party invitations, group chats, or even print on signs.
How to Create Your Own 4th of July This or That Questions
Want to keep the fun going all day? You can make your questions based on:
- What you’re doing that day (ex, picnic vs BBQ)
- Your audience (kids, adults, social followers)
- Food, fashion, weather, music, or traditions
- Past July 4th memories or plans
Keep the format quick and the tone light.
Conclusion: Let the Red, White & Fun Begin
“This or That” questions are one of the easiest and most effective ways to make your Fourth of July more interactive, memorable, and fun. Whether you’re sharing laughs with family, bonding with your partner, or posting story polls for your followers, this game brings everyone together.
Try a few of these questions this July 4th and watch the conversation light up like the fireworks in the sky.
What would you choose: Hot dogs or hamburgers? Fireworks or sparklers? Share your picks and let the fun begin.
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